TO   WHOM    IT   MAY   CONCERN
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( A  Possible   Solution )

I   THINK  :
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I.    THE   ONLY  AND  BEST  WAY     FOR   US   (  YOUR   PARENTS )  IS   TO   STAY  
      TOGETHER   IN    ONE   PLACE  (  RAJARHAT/ BATANAGAR )  NOT   USA.
II.  BEAR   THE   EXPENSES  (  INCLUDING   RENTAL )  TOGETHER   AND   MAKE  OUR  
    'TERMINAL  PHASE   OF   LIVING ' AS  MUCH     EASY    AND   COMFORTABLE   AND
     ALSO   'TENSION - LESS'  TO   OUR   CHILDREN .
III.  WE  (  PARENTS)   SHOULD    HAVE    SEPARATE    ROOMS    SO   THAT  TO  LIVE
      INDEPENDENT   (WITH  FULL   FREEDOM   OF   CHOICE  AND    WITHOUT
      INTERFERENCE   TO   EACH   OTHER'S   CHOICE    AND  TASTE   OF  LIVING .
IV.   AS  I  AM   GIVING   UP   MY    WORLDLY    DESIRES    OF   ART,  LITERATURE, ETC            ETC   &  ETC,  I   DON"T   THINK     I  SHALL   HAVE   TO    DISTURB     YOUR   MOTHER
    IN  ANY   WAY   WITH   MY   PERSONAL   HABITS  OR   WHIMS.
V.  I  SHALL   BE   ABLE   TO  PAY     RS   10, 000/=  Pm     AS    RENTAL;  PLUS  ANOTHER
    Rs  10,000/==  Pm   FOR    MAINTENANCE    Etc    OR   EVEN   MORE    IF   NEEDED.
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ONLY  OUR  CHILDREN   AND  GRAND  CHILDREN  SHOULD  BE  THERE    TO  VISIT  US   OR   OTHERWISE   AS   DECIDED    BY  US (WITH  CONSULTATION  WITH  CHILDREN' ).

OTHER  THAN  NOMITA  &  AROTI  THERE  CAN  EVEN   BE  A  MALE  HELPER  AT  OUR  COST  WHEN  AND  IF  NECESSARY .

** (  Should  be  TREATED  only  as  a  DRAFT - PROPOSAL  and  subjected  to     CHANGE  / MODIFICATION  and  ADJUSTMENTS.).

YOUR  MOTHER   HAS   NO   DESIRE   TO   GO  TO   USA   EVEN   FOR  A   CHANGE, AS   SHE   TOLD   ME  ;  NEITHER   HAVE   I .
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(WROTE  AS  A   RUNNING   THOUGHT.  ).