FAMILY ISSUE : Rental of HILAND - BIRCH I
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After long thinking and hesitation I am intimating my thoughts to You on personal and Confidential Level :
1. Rental of 10 A Flat Rs 20,000'= agrreed totally as calculated .
II. Divided into 5 parts @ Rs 4000/= per share : agree it is decided to TREAT Parents as
two ( Separate)Units i.e Units x5 !
Of course I have money and can pay but feel differently on moral grounds and family -value-wise .
My idea is that : we are 4 units ( 1 daughter + 2 sons + parents [ as one Unit ]) though 5 in number. That way and ideally division should be on Family unity & moral ground and that's why I mentioned before to pay half of Bulbl's share i.e Rs 2500/= per month ) ; so that your mother has to pay 50% less ( she expressed her own worries about her too much expenses more than once ).
I assured her that Jhumur told already that the total expenses from her mother's purse will not EXCEED her Pension ; so that her FD-s with Interest are ever SAFE of course ultimately for her off-springs only .
In my last Visit to Rajarhat, I got some out-flow in her depressive vocal expressions .
That is why I put it up here ( as my bad habit is -- always!) .
Any way; U may think over it and let me have a clearer picture about the Rent- obligation of mine , I have money to pay . But morally and family-value wise I think we are 4 units ( though 5 in number ).
Treat my e-mail as Confidential and allof you decide together and I shall go by it .
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After long thinking and hesitation I am intimating my thoughts to You on personal and Confidential Level :
1. Rental of 10 A Flat Rs 20,000'= agrreed totally as calculated .
II. Divided into 5 parts @ Rs 4000/= per share : agree it is decided to TREAT Parents as
two ( Separate)Units i.e Units x5 !
Of course I have money and can pay but feel differently on moral grounds and family -value-wise .
My idea is that : we are 4 units ( 1 daughter + 2 sons + parents [ as one Unit ]) though 5 in number. That way and ideally division should be on Family unity & moral ground and that's why I mentioned before to pay half of Bulbl's share i.e Rs 2500/= per month ) ; so that your mother has to pay 50% less ( she expressed her own worries about her too much expenses more than once ).
I assured her that Jhumur told already that the total expenses from her mother's purse will not EXCEED her Pension ; so that her FD-s with Interest are ever SAFE of course ultimately for her off-springs only .
In my last Visit to Rajarhat, I got some out-flow in her depressive vocal expressions .
That is why I put it up here ( as my bad habit is -- always!) .
Any way; U may think over it and let me have a clearer picture about the Rent- obligation of mine , I have money to pay . But morally and family-value wise I think we are 4 units ( though 5 in number ).
Treat my e-mail as Confidential and allof you decide together and I shall go by it .
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